Resignation Day – Goodbye TPS Reports, Hello World!

by Dave on October 29, 2007 · 36 comments

Life is either a daring adventure, or nothing. — Helen Keller

The “Short and Sweet” Version

I did it! I submitted my notice to my boss at work Monday morning. It was hard, though after I got it all out, I felt a HUGE sense of relief. I agreed to stay on a few days longer than initially planned, through November 21 (the day before Thanksgiving). My boss was both surprised and supportive. He said his boss, peer, and the HR VP were all happy for me. “You’re only young once,” he said. It should start to become public knowledge in the next few days.

The Long “Play by Play” Version

I woke up and went through my normal morning routine. I wrote “Just Do It” on my whiteboard before jumping in the shower. Once in there, I said some affirmations. After getting dressed, I played a few of my favorite Pennywise songs from the DVD I created the night before. I stepped outside of my warm apartment into the chilly 38-degree air. The sky was a brilliant and complete blue – not a cloud in sight (sadly, such morning skies remind me of 9/11).

I continued to listen to Pennywise on the way to work, until I started feeling as though my heart was going to beat through the wall of my chest. I realized mellow music was called for to relax me, and popped on Bob Marley’s “Three Little Birds” which put me at ease.

After about 15 minutes of settling into my cubicle as usual, I called my boss and asked if he had time to meet with me. He was available immediately. I tend to be diplomatic, and sometimes take awhile to get to my bottom line message. I chose a different approach for this situation, opening with “This is really hard for me, so I’m going to get straight to it.” I then proceeded to tell him about the decision I had made to make a big change in my life, and pursue my passion for travel by embarking on a trip around the world. He responded with surprise, support and curiosity.

When I indicated November 15th as my last day, he suggested a little more time might behoove me given my managerial role and the time of year (we’re busier than normal through Thanksgiving). Four extra days before a holiday would be easy enough, so I agreed to make November 21st my last day instead. Glad I hadn’t bought a plane ticket yet – I want to leave the company in good standing!

I immediately felt a sense of relief and excitement, updated my good friends and parents, and went about knocking tasks off my pre-trip “to-do” list at lightening speed with a clear mind and a satiated soul.

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36 Comments

Stacy October 30, 2007 at 12:50 am

Congratulations! I’m glad it went so well.

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Dave October 30, 2007 at 1:31 am

Thanks Stacy! I’m so excited, and I just can’t hide it, I’m about to lose control and I think I like it. :grin:

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Stacy October 30, 2007 at 12:50 am

Congratulations! I’m glad it went so well.

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Stacy October 29, 2007 at 7:50 pm

Congratulations! I’m glad it went so well.

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Dave October 29, 2007 at 8:31 pm

Thanks Stacy! I’m so excited, and I just can’t hide it, I’m about to lose control and I think I like it. :grin:

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Michele October 30, 2007 at 2:23 am

… and i’m wishing i could sleep in just one day a week…

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Michele October 29, 2007 at 9:23 pm

… and i’m wishing i could sleep in just one day a week…

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Stu October 30, 2007 at 12:40 pm

Doesnt it just feel… GOOD! :razz:

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Stu October 30, 2007 at 7:40 am

Doesnt it just feel… GOOD! :razz:

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Skip October 30, 2007 at 1:57 pm

one small step, one giant leap for Dave…

congratulations dude! It will not be long now, and I for one and anxious for you to begin your adventure!

-Skip

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Skip October 30, 2007 at 8:57 am

one small step, one giant leap for Dave…

congratulations dude! It will not be long now, and I for one and anxious for you to begin your adventure!

-Skip

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Tanya October 30, 2007 at 10:59 pm

popped in through blogexplosion.

just wanted to say you are brave on what you are about to do.

Amazing stuff man! God bless you! :D

I guess I’ll be dropping by to see how the traveling is going. :D

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Dave October 30, 2007 at 11:09 pm

Thanks Tanya – glad you took a moment to share a few smiles. ;)

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Tanya October 30, 2007 at 5:59 pm

popped in through blogexplosion.

just wanted to say you are brave on what you are about to do.

Amazing stuff man! God bless you! :D

I guess I’ll be dropping by to see how the traveling is going. :D

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Dave October 30, 2007 at 6:09 pm

Thanks Tanya – glad you took a moment to share a few smiles. ;)

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crambox October 31, 2007 at 4:32 am

Great Job Glad it went well!!! :mrgreen:

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crambox October 30, 2007 at 11:32 pm

Great Job Glad it went well!!! :mrgreen:

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Laura October 31, 2007 at 12:57 pm

I feel your joy, Dave! Congrats! What a relief indeed!

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Laura October 31, 2007 at 7:57 am

I feel your joy, Dave! Congrats! What a relief indeed!

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Kirsty October 31, 2007 at 2:17 pm

Well done! It’s such a great feeling to be able to tick things off a ‘to do’ list, especially the major ones like that. Fortunately for me my boss has known for months. Actually, since the day I started back working here 2.5 years ago so it’s never been a nerve wracking thing for me. Still, setting that last day of work date is a wicked feeling!

Not long for you now…

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Kirsty October 31, 2007 at 9:17 am

Well done! It’s such a great feeling to be able to tick things off a ‘to do’ list, especially the major ones like that. Fortunately for me my boss has known for months. Actually, since the day I started back working here 2.5 years ago so it’s never been a nerve wracking thing for me. Still, setting that last day of work date is a wicked feeling!

Not long for you now…

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Mike October 31, 2007 at 5:37 pm

Congrats, Dave. It seems like this would be one of the hardest pre-trip things to do, especially if you like your job. I’m sure everything will only get easier for you from here!

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Mike October 31, 2007 at 12:37 pm

Congrats, Dave. It seems like this would be one of the hardest pre-trip things to do, especially if you like your job. I’m sure everything will only get easier for you from here!

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liz November 5, 2007 at 10:07 pm

Congratulations Dave.

I’ve been checking in on your planning ever since you answered my question on the thorntree. I told my boss I was planning on leaving in a year or a year and a half – although i said it was to move to the uk; i figure i’ll tell them the true when we get closer to a departure.

It felt really great and it worked in my favour workwise. I’m in a creative industry so my boss promised to help me get my portfolio in kicka*s shape before I leave.

I’m looking forward to reading about the rest of your journey.

Liz

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Dave November 6, 2007 at 2:12 am

Thanks Liz – I look forward to giving you an adventure worth following! It all starts with a trip to Tahiti November 30. Boy does that feel awesome to say. :)

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liz November 5, 2007 at 5:07 pm

Congratulations Dave.

I’ve been checking in on your planning ever since you answered my question on the thorntree. I told my boss I was planning on leaving in a year or a year and a half – although i said it was to move to the uk; i figure i’ll tell them the true when we get closer to a departure.

It felt really great and it worked in my favour workwise. I’m in a creative industry so my boss promised to help me get my portfolio in kicka*s shape before I leave.

I’m looking forward to reading about the rest of your journey.

Liz

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Dave November 5, 2007 at 9:12 pm

Thanks Liz – I look forward to giving you an adventure worth following! It all starts with a trip to Tahiti November 30. Boy does that feel awesome to say. :)

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Adventure Doc November 5, 2007 at 10:59 pm

Huge Congrats! I have been listening to some old Pennywise, today too. I still haven’t gotten up the “stones” to resign from my job. Maybe the music isn’t loud enough? Look forward to seeing some more posts!

Erik

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Dave November 6, 2007 at 2:17 am

Hey Erik –

I bookmarked your web page. I just got my last few immunizations today, except the flu shot which happens at work Thursday. I’m rolling the dice with Japanese encephalitis and Rabies. I’ll have to be careful around all those monkeys and rats in SE Asia and India.

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Adventure Doc November 5, 2007 at 5:59 pm

Huge Congrats! I have been listening to some old Pennywise, today too. I still haven’t gotten up the “stones” to resign from my job. Maybe the music isn’t loud enough? Look forward to seeing some more posts!

Erik

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Dave November 5, 2007 at 9:17 pm

Hey Erik –

I bookmarked your web page. I just got my last few immunizations today, except the flu shot which happens at work Thursday. I’m rolling the dice with Japanese encephalitis and Rabies. I’ll have to be careful around all those monkeys and rats in SE Asia and India.

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Erik November 6, 2007 at 9:30 pm

Maybe we could do a study, together. Does drinking 3-4 pints of guinness, per day, prevent rabies? The problem is finding anybody who likes to drink 4 pints of “vitamin G” every day.

Good job on the ticket prices, too! Seems to be a good deal.

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Erik November 6, 2007 at 4:30 pm

Maybe we could do a study, together. Does drinking 3-4 pints of guinness, per day, prevent rabies? The problem is finding anybody who likes to drink 4 pints of “vitamin G” every day.

Good job on the ticket prices, too! Seems to be a good deal.

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